Most members are exactly who they say they are. These habits help you spot the few who are not.
Before you share details
- Keep conversations on Sakthi Matrimony until you are comfortable — chats here are protected and reportable.
- Involve family early. Genuine families are happy to speak parent-to-parent.
- Verify independently: workplace, education and family references are fair things to ask about.
Warning signs
- Any request for money, gifts, “customs fees” or help with an emergency — no matter how convincing.
- Pressure to move to another app quickly, or reluctance to speak on a video call.
- Details that change between conversations, or a profile that looks too perfect.
Meeting in person
- Meet in a public place, with family where possible, and tell someone where you are going.
- Arrange your own travel and never share financial information.
If something feels wrong
Use “Report” on the profile or block the member at any time. Our team reviews reports within 24 hours and acts on fake profiles, abuse and scams.